Just Because You Are A Negative Whiner Today, Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Change!
Alright so I just told you yesterday that if you encounter someone who isalways complaining or moaning you need to realize they are simply a complainerand moaner so you shouldn’t waste your time asking why…
And now I am telling you just because you are a negative whiner today,doesn’t mean you can’t change!
What’s the deal? Ha ha!
Well there is one huge difference. If you find yourself dealing with anegative whiner you have absolutely no control over that person, and attemptingto change them is absolutely impossible. The only person on the face of theplanet we have any power to change is ourselves.
If you can find it within yourself to absolutely believe that the onlyperson stopping your from changing, is yourself … You should feelempowered!
I remember about five or six years ago when I was driving down the highwayhere in Grand Rapids and saw a billboard that absolutely caught my attention.The billboard had the phrase, “Reinvent U” on it and was a campaign being runby a local college.
I was immediately intrigued by the saying and immediately started to conjureup in my mind what an incredible course this might be and how awesome thepossibilities might be.
During that stage of my life I wasn’t completely happy with the way thingswere going. I didn’t believe I was doing everything possible to get to theplace in life I wanted to be, and I was finding it very difficult to find themotivation to do anything differently to create better results.
That isn’t a very good place to be. I believe many people refer to it as“being stuck in a rut.” I would better explain it as being stuck in a very darkplace where it seems impossible to see your way to a brighter place.
This billboard helped clear things up for me IMMENSELY!
These two words (or the word and letter) sent me off on a different thoughtprocess and helped me realize the only thing stopping me from getting on a pathto achieving better results in my life was the actions I was taking.
I finally realized just because I was stuck in the pattern ofprocrastinating, not focusing, and wasting time didn’t mean I was required toalways be that person. I could IMMEDIATELY change my pattern and thereforereinvent myself!
WOW … Talk about feeling refreshed and completely improving your perspectiveon life! I felt completely energized!
We’re all forced to make choices every single day, and based on thosechoices, and the actions we repeat over and over, we tend to become associatedwith people who make those same choices and take the same actions.
The beautiful thing is, even if you are a person who always finds thenegative in everything, and if you are constantly whining about how difficultyou have it … You are only ONE SMALL decision away from reinventing yourself bychanging your thought process and the actions you take every single day.
Conversely, if you are a person that has a ton of positive things happeningin your life and you’ve felt as though you’ve arrived … You can still getbetter!
Isn’t life a wonderful thing?
Let me know if you’ve ever come to a similar point in your life where youmodified your actions, even slightly, and noticed a significant difference. Iam sure almost everyone has, it may just take a little time to recall thosemoments.
Pete Brand is a businessman.
He created a successful distribution business throughout the United States,which grew to a network of 2,500 sales people, under his supervision. He alsoacquired substantial sales and marketing experience with a local telecomcompany, and helped them to become the number one distributor of the productthey marketed.
He was introduced to the Internet in 1998 and was fascinated at thepossibilities. Although he didn’t know how to design or program a website, hesaw the incredible opportunities the Internet presented in reaching peoplearound the world quickly and efficiently. This motivated Pete to start awebsite development company which has since helped hundreds of companies aroundthe world create well over $100,000,000 in online revenue.
Pete has a passion for Internet marketing and teaching individuals andcompanies the exact ingredients required for starting and running a successfulonline business. His expertise covers both “business to business” and “businessto consumer” areas of online marketing.